Saturday, June 30, 2012

What does your family think?

What does your dad think about this move?  your kids?
My dad has been my biggest supporter.  From the first day we talked until now, he has cheered me on, "Go for it!" adding "Carolyn, you have a lot of courage! I'm proud of you." My children's responses were more varied.  Kate said she thought it was exciting, then asked me if she could have the grape vine print on my wall.  Yes Kate!  James said he was proud of me, "Way to go Mom!".  Erik wondered who he'd stay with when he wants to visit the island. We've talked with his friends and their families. ALL have been warm and welcoming.  He wondered if he could use the flat screen TV in his college rental next year. Sure!  Their dad lives close by, on the mainland, where Erik is living now for his summer painting job. I pray they will all do fine.  They are all busy with their lives, as they should be.  My dream is to get them over to Beirut, one by one, so we can build some new memories together.  Everyone seems up for this.

Sometimes Moving means letting go of a loved one.

Sweet Peppr
I let go of Pepper, my kitty companion, Monday night.  She is with her new family.  I keep looking for her in the doorways, or curled up at the end of my bed.  Yes, I miss her so much!  I comfort myself knowing that she is with caring, kind people who really want her.  It turns out that James knows Pepper's new mom, Twyla, from high school. "Good choice" he emailed.  Also, my friend Karen knows the family, and was equally reassuring. So, I made the decision to let her go now, before I leave, so I can hear how she's doing.  Thank goodness Erik and Trevor, his friend, were here to help.  Pepper knew something was up; hid under the queen bed, out of arm's reach.  Boys had to move the bed and catch her.  Oh dear!  Not the smooth transition I was hoping for...


Most often Moving is about letting go of stuff.  

Clearing out my classroom was next. With Marty, Pat, Betsy, Eric and Erik's help, I gave away, recycled, and tossed out shopping carts full of paper, books, posters, and equipment; 30 years worth of stuff that filled three 4-high file boxes, 10 drawers, 7 cupboards, 20+ shelves, and 1 teacher's desk.  Where did all that stuff come from? What's left is sitting next to me in 20 cartons.... more paring down to go!


 

Sunday, June 24, 2012

New school and home...

The American Community School is a K-12 school of 1000 students and about 160 staff members. Most of these students are Lebanese, as are the teachers. There are a few foreign teachers, some newbies like me.  There are three 4th grade classes taught by Lucy from England, Arij, I presume of Lebanon, and myself.  Lucy is my designated "buddy" teacher.  She's been busy answering my many questions:
How's the climate (hot in summer!)
Will I meet bugs in the kitchen (No, but school fumigates for cockroaches once a year)
Tell me about wildlife in Beirut (a great number of feral cats in the city!).


My first vision of Beirut was a bit off key.  I'd heard that the power goes out for anywhere from one to several hours at a time, daily, so asked how they manage.  Reply?  The generator kicks in and you don't even notice. (Well, that beats Whidbey Is!) I'll never forget my principal's response to my first queries about electricity shortages and water pollution:  "Carolyn, this is not a hardship position."  Whew! Surviving will be easier than I thought, but Hey!  It's all new to me!


I'll live in a flat that is within walking distance of school.  It's on the 4th floor of the German Evangelical Building.  There are other teachers in the building, but teachers are scattered in buildings all over the area.  There is not a teacher's dorm, or anything like that.  I will live in my own flat complete with kitchen, sitting area, bedroom, bathroom and balcony.  It is furnished with everything, from knives and forks, to furniture and linens. "Sorry, no microwave or toaster."  I've read that traffic is noisy and constant; all day and night.  This will be a contrast to island living! I'm trading Pepper and bird calls for honking and sirens.  Ah, the adventure of it all!!!

 Below are pictures Lucy sent of an apartment similar to mine.

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Fact Links for Lebanon

Found this fact sheet of Lebanese Climate, Geography, Government, Education, even a little history.  Lebanon is the meeting point of 3 continents, and has been an historical crossroads for centuries:

http://www.lebanonembassyus.org/country_lebanon/overview.html

Friday, June 22, 2012

What I'm learning about Beirut...

I've learned Lebanon is tiny!  I'm told you could drive its complete circuit in 8 1/2 hours.  It is tucked under Syria (oooo!), and north of Israel. Some maps still read "Palestine".  "If you have a passport with Israeli stamps, you must replace it before your arrival", I read in the school's information packet. Wow.  The border between the two countries is heavily barricaded and guarded; no gate in the fence?  I'm told the only way into Israel is through Jordan.  Israel got fed up with Hezbollah (of southern Lebanon) lobbing bombs over the border, and struck back in 2006, bombing and occupying parts(?) of Lebanon for a couple of years(?). This did not help mend relations on either side.
Meanwhile, Syria to the north and east is involved in a horrific civil war which seems to have escalated over the past year.  When I first came home from San Francisco I began watching news on CNN, but found it so disturbing, that I stopped.  This began a series of emails to the school in Beirut asking "What's going on over there?"  Replies suggested that the news here in the US is "exaggerated".  That didn't stop my queries, especially after I read the US State Dept advisories discouraging travel to Lebanon.  Their reply? That the US State Dept operates from an extremely conservative stance when it comes to Lebanon and the Middle East in general.  In her email, my new principal explained it this way:  If the US State Dept put out a No Travel Advisory every time someone pulled a gun in the States, would you stay home?

The local news from Beirut is very positive, even encouraging:  "We hiked in the Bekaa Valley last weekend; beautiful area.  We're hanging out at the outdoor coffee houses; wonderful.  Mediterranean food here is out of this world!  Problems in Syria are not spilling over into Beirut as your news would tell you."  I felt better hearing this, but will stay tuned.

What else have I learned?  It's a gorgeous part of the world and dates back over 2000 years, to the time of the Phoenicians. Beirut sits between the Mediterranean to the west, and snow-covered mountains to the east. (Snow and water sports; NICE!) The main language is Arabic, but they also speak French (Merveilleux! My college major!), and English. Beirut is referred to as "The Paris of the East".  It is a city of 2 MILLION people (dense!).  You will see the occasional woman in her berk a (sp?), but you will also see women fashionably dressed in the latest designer clothes.   I've read that the night life is big in Beirut.  It gets hot in the summer, same latitude as Southern California, but humid.  The school is tucked in next to the American University of Beirut, comprising a stylish area called the Hamra District, known for its many restaurants and fascinating shopping areas.  My school is a block from the Mediterranean, and the Corniche, a wide paved strolling path that runs along the sea.  You can take a virtual tour on Google Earth:  American Community School (ACS in Beirut).

ACS assures me that safety comes first. Should anything change, I will be notified.  They do have an evacuation plan, but have never had to use it.

Finally, I'm told, "You will love Lebanon.  Its people are warm, friendly, and welcoming.  Keep packing!"

Much more to learn!  Please pass on anything you can add.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Why Overseas? Why now?

I have friends who have taught overseas: Marguerite (taught in Kuwait and Curacao) and Nadean (currently teaching in Nangjing China).  Overseas teaching was far from my mind with a family to care for, and students to teach.  I view raising my 3 children as my greatest life's work! All of that was enough for me, until one day, my 28-year marriage fell apart.  Life as I'd lived it was over.  A year later, my youngest was off to college, and the family house of 21 years was sold.  Dead woman walking was me.  

Unexpectedly, an old daydream of mine busted out of its box a year ago June!  I was in the staff room at school, introducing myself to the ESL teacher, Judy, when all of sudden I heard myself sharing "my secret" desire to work overseas. Judy admitted this to be a desire of hers, so we met at Neil's several times last summer to share our research and encourage one another. Then along came the personal issues.  Judy was married and decided this wasn't the right time to go on an overseas adventure.  For me there was my son, Erik, who came home for the summers.  I needed to be here for him.  Add to that my 83 year old dad, my cat, my friends, and  my sister who needed to stay with me after her surgery. It didn't look very realistic for me either.  I kept my thoughts to myself until one day in October when I got a call from Erik at college.  He told me he would be living with his dad in Edmonds this coming summer to work a full time job.  Really? The door began to open! I talked with my dad about the idea of working overseas and he encouraged me to move on it.  Liz, my sister, was staying with me while recovering from ankle and hip surgeries. "Go for it!" she insisted.  My adult children and friends somehow manage to put up with me.  I'm so grateful!!!
Now, it's about moving forward.  A year's leave has been granted.  And how do I feel about Beirut?  Fear! Excitement! Even sadness and overwhelmed. But this is what I've determined to do. Pushing doubt aside, it's "Lebanon or Bust!"
Why Beirut?

Why not France, Australia, or South America?
Back in November, well before the February Job Fair, I remember discussing international teaching openings with a friend.  "I WON'T look for a job in the Middle East.  There are so many other places to teach!"  We agreed that this was a wise plan.  Well...  once I arrived at the Job Fair in San Francisco, the director spoke to us, 250 candidates, and advised us to be open minded and enter the job search with open minds. Okay.  I would go to the presentation by the American Community School in Lebanon, just to say I did.  I knew Beirut had to be an interesting city, historically, but all I could recall was the bombing of the American embassy, and recently, a war with Israel.  I couldn't remember details, but did know it had been a hotbed.  As I watched the presentation by Dr. George Damon, school headmaster, I found myself fascinated, scribbling notes all over my journal.  At the top of his power point, he listed service projects in the community:  recycling, aid to the Palestinian refuge camps, their ecological projects...Wonderful, I was thinking. Next, He discussed the arts and commented, "We are openly biased toward the arts; Drama, Theatre, Choir, Band..."  Oh my gosh!  From there it was about the "Gorgeous countryside, snowy mountains dropping down to the Mediterranean Sea."  Suddenly, in the middle of his talk, he got a cell call from his wife in Lebanon.  He explained to us that his daughter, Arwa, a correspondent for CNN, was in Syria and was trying to get out.  He was waiting for news that she was safely out of Syria.   Wow.  That was strange news. But I have to admit that it further intrigued me. Yes, I was bitten, Badly.  My notes took up several pages. This alone convinced me that Beirut was where I wanted to be.  But would they want me?  30-year teacher, 59 years old, gray haired, and untraveled?

The next step in the process could best be described as Speed Dating (and no, I've never tried it!). All prospective schools lined the walls of a huge hotel ballroom with their job openings posted on the wall behind them. We simply walked from table to table to set up interviews, but the catch?  We had about 1 minute to convince the school rep to put us on their weekend interview schedule.  This was a critical step, and would determine how we spent our weekend  in San Francisco.

 When I entered the ballroom, I was distressed to note that the Lebanon table had the longest line in the room.  It was the school I wanted most of all, but nerves were too tight to stand around, so I went to other schools, gave my one-minute speech (Please interview me!), and set up interviews in Mexico, Ecuador, Qatar, and China.  I returned to the Lebanon table, discouraged that the line still stretched across the room, so went off to sign up for schools in South Korea and Kuwait.  Finally, back to the Lebanon table, still a line, but this time I waited.  Finally, my turn.  I walked up to Dr. Damon seated behind his paperwork, fearing he'd be out of interview slots, but said to him, stomach lurching with hope:  "Hello Dr. Damon. all I can say is that you grabbed my heart with your presentation when I had no intention of going anywhere near the Middle East!  I was swept away by your discussion of the arts, your community projects, and all I can say is, Your school is my first choice!  Will you please give me an interview?"  He did, 11:00 the next morning.

At the interview, I could tell that he remembered me, the one with her heart on her sleeve. "I have to know, Is Beirut a safe place for a single woman?"  He answered, "Women walk, jog and run on their own all the time.  It's as safe or safer than American cities. You'll feel comfortable and safe outside."  I asked him if his school had a collaborative teaching climate; that this was important to me.  He assured me that there would be teachers very interested in teaming with me, that I would work closely with my grade level colleagues. At that point I begged him, "Please ask me some questions!  I need to know if I'm a good fit for your school!"  He smiled and asked me what I wanted him to ask.  My behavior management plan?  My teaching style?  He asked me to tell him whatever I wanted him to know.  So I did. He told me he had to leave early the next morning for Washington DC, but would send me an email.

The next morning, at 8 a.m., I found a job offer, and 48 hours to reply.
Without asking about housing, language, or anything practical, but knowing that the salary was half of what I currently earned, I paused, then talked about the offer with my darling roommate, Jill, from Wyoming.  It became clear that Beirut was still where I wanted to live and work. This was the adventure I was looking for, with whatever came with it.  I turned to the computer and typed an enthusiastic acceptance.  Dr. Damon typed back, "This news makes my trip all the more worthwhile.  Welcome to the American Community School!"
That's how it all began.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Welcome to the Grand Opening of Bipp's Blog!

Here is the presentation I'm sending to my 4th grade students at the American Community School in Beirut.  They have Move Up day next week, and this is my intro to them:
Carolyn Bippart
https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1aEAR-3qhG0lzeR6VpGDBw-g765SpNxm6uqd9udE9AlY/edit?pli=1#slide=id.p